I took a very interesting call for a reading several days ago, from a lovely sounding woman who was having trouble with her love life. She kept finding herself attracted to men who were 'just not available' in one way or another, if you know what I mean. She found herself attracted to two men in particular, with a possible third she was interested in; and really hadn't had too much luck with love since her divorce.
I tuned in, read the cards for her and just couldn't see, in all honestly, that any of them would be good for her. I can't or won't tell people what they want to hear, my guides and angels show me what the client need to know and I have to be honest, and tell them what the angels want them to know. I couldn't work any other way.
She became quite tearful and asked me why it was she found herself drawn to a certain type of man - the unavailable type - whether that was because they were already in relationships, or because they were not into commitment. I consulted the spread of cards and asked my guides for help. What I saw was a childhood emotional wound that needed to be healed, plus I saw a man with his back turned to me - and this man had dark hair and very broad shoulders.
I described what I saw to her, "That's my dad" she exclaimed, and went on to tell me that he walked out on her and her mother when she was only 7 years old. She hadn't seen nor heard from him since. By now she was really sobbing and told me that she was fed up with this coming up in readings as she had already forgiven him.
I tried to explain to her that it keeps coming up in readings because it's not completely healed yet. The adult part of her has forgiven him, but the 7 year old child is still wounded, and that's the part of her that needs to be worked with and needs to do the forgiving.
Until this aspect of her inner child has been truly healed, she will find herself drawn towards men who are not available to her in mind, body or soul; because the Universe has a way of 'prodding' us until we deal with it. It will keep happening, not because the Universe or the angels want to be cruel, but because she is being given the opportunity to have this issue right at the surface for release and healing. In a way, this is a gift, because once it has been truly healed and released she will be free, and she will attract to her the sort of man she needs and deserves. One who will treat her like the Goddess that she is.
Self employed Angel Card Reader, professional writer, previously worked as Angelic healer and stress consultant, former local government officer. Lived in Witney, West Oxfordshire for 30+ years, 3 grown up children, 4 grandchildren. On my spiritual path and at times it's hard but always worth it!